Dating in France as an English speaker
France has two kinds of dating platforms. The big French dating sites, like Meetic, DisonsDemain and eDarling, are where most French singles looking for a relationship are. Their websites are in French, and most conversations happen in French. International apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and happn work in English and are popular in Paris, Lyon, Bordeaux and other big cities, especially with students and expats.
Our tip: if your French is still basic, start with an international app. If you speak some French and want something serious, a French dating site gives you access to many more local singles.
What is free on French dating sites?
Almost every dating site in France is free to join. On Meetic, DisonsDemain or eDarling, a free account lets you create a profile, browse members and send likes. To exchange messages, you need a subscription. On apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and happn, chatting with your matches is free, and paid plans only add extras like more likes or seeing who liked you.
The best dating apps in France, by profile
- For a serious relationship: Meetic, the best-known dating site in France, with the largest pool of French singles.
- For a long-term relationship: eDarling, which suggests compatible profiles after a personality test.
- If you are over 50: DisonsDemain, made for French singles over 50.
- If you prefer English and are over 40: DateMyAge, an international site in English that works with credits.
- If you want to pay nothing at all: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge or happn, all available in English.
Is Meetic free?
You can sign up, build your profile, search and send likes on Meetic for free. To send and read messages, you need a subscription. Meetic’s website is in French, so it suits English speakers who can at least read and write a little French.
Tips for dating in France
- Write your profile in both French and English: it shows you are open to both, and it starts conversations.
- In France, a first date is often a drink in the evening (un verre) rather than dinner.
- Keep chatting on the site or app until you trust the person, and never send money to someone you met online.
- Meet in a public place for the first date and tell a friend where you are going.
- If you subscribe, note the renewal date and cancel in time from your account settings.
Dating in France: FAQ
What is the best dating app in France for English speakers?
Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and happn all work in English and are free to use for chatting with matches. For a serious relationship with French singles, Meetic is the biggest dating site in France, but its website is in French.
What is the most popular dating site in France?
Meetic is the best-known dating site in France. Among apps, Tinder is the most widely used.
Are there free dating sites in France?
Yes. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and happn let you chat with your matches for free. French dating sites like Meetic, DisonsDemain and eDarling are free to join, but messaging needs a subscription.
Do I need to speak French to date in France?
No, especially in big cities where many people speak English. But some French helps a lot on French dating sites, where profiles and conversations are mostly in French.
Is online dating safe in France?
The big sites and apps check profiles and let you report and block members. Stay careful: never send money, and keep the conversation on the platform at first.



